Not last, but least

I'm sure everyone has heard the saying last, but not least. Well I believe my case is the oposite. I am the oldest child in my family, but I feel that most of the time, everyone neglects me. At least on one side of my family. I would much rather be with the other side of my family most of the time because they actually acknowledge me and care for my feelings. I'm always the one that gets in trouble on the 1st side. If I got hurt no one even cares. When I broke my leg, I had to sit on the couch for three hours before any one even looked at me because they were too wrapped up with my sister. I'm sorry for telling you all this, but I just need to tell some one that might listen. I don't think I'm alone in feeling this way though.